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And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone;
I will make him a helper comparable to him.”
Genesis 2:18

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Detrimental Soul Ties That Will Hinder Progress in Your New Relationship

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Sex is a tridimensional experience: spirit, soul, and body. Anytime you have sex with a person you bond with them. Dr Daniel Amen writes in his book, “Change Your Brain, Change Your Life,” “Whenever a person is sexually involved with another person, neurochemical changes occur in both their brains that encourage limbic, emotional bonding. Limbic bonding is the reason casual sex doesn’t really work for most people on a whole mind and body level. Two people may decide to have sex ‘just for the fun of it,’ yet something is occurring on another level that they might not have decided on at all: sex is enhancing an emotional bond between them whether they want it or not. One person, often the woman, is bound to form an attachment and will be hurt when a casual affair ends. One reason it is usually the woman who is hurt most is that the female limbic system is larger than the male’s.”

This is what we call soul ties. Sex is like gluing two pieces of wood together and the next day ripping them apart. Of course, wood from the opposite board remains on each board. A piece of your sex partner (the good, the bad, and the ugly) stays with you (and vice versa) for the rest of your life. You can only imagine what it looks like when you bond with multiple partners. 

Unhealthy soul ties are often the ramifications of having partners that you create a life-long bond with through a sexual encounter(s), but with whom you only have a short-term relationship with. The bond (soul tie) remains long after the relationship is over, leaving both sexual partners longing for wholeness. Sexual intercourse does not create real love if there was no love in the first place. This kind of relationship predisposes the relationship into abusive behaviours.

Reasons Unhealthy Soul Ties Take Place

1. People are misinformed and therefore convinced that sex is strictly a single-dimensional, physical act with no emotional or spiritual connections. Yet after sex they find themselves mysteriously longing for the person they may not even like.

2. A person (usually the woman) gives him or herself sexually to someone expecting that the intensely intimate act of intercourse would create a bond that would lead to deeper levels of commitment in their relationship. But soon she discovers that her sexual partner was taking advantage of her need for intimacy and used her vulnerability to get laid. Of course, this leads to a person being emotionally and spiritually bonded to somebody that they deeply resent!


3. Two people commit to marriage and therefore surmise that the covenant vows are only a formality. So they live together and enjoy a sexual relationship outside of a life-long commitment. But later they decide (for whatever reason) that they don’t want to live in a covenant relationship and eventually break up. They usually don’t realize how deeply they have wounded each other as their souls are ripped apart, tearing the very fabric of their being in the separation.


I understand that there are hundreds of other reasons why unhealthy soul ties take place, but I am simply trying to give you a few examples that are related to love relationships. Our bodies as children of God are the temple of the Holy Ghost. 1 Corinthians 3:16 “Know ye not that you are the temple of God and the Holy Ghost dwells in you”. Let’s align with the Christian principles perspective while still in courtship. This saves us from attacks by the small defeated fool called the devil and we want to be ensuring that we receive the full blessing from the Lord when we get married. 

I believe in the Name of Jesus that there is revelation knowledge in your mind and spirit as you read this article. In 1 Corinthians 6: 9, Pauls says, “Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, no effeminate, no abusers of themselves with mankind”,KJV.

Signs that you have Unhealthy Soul Ties

1. You are in a physically, and/or emotionally, and/or spiritually abusive relationship, but you “feel” so attached to them that you refuse to cut off the connection and set boundaries with them.

2. You have left a relationship (maybe long ago), but you think about the other person obsessively (you can’t get them out of your mind). You enjoy talking about them even in your present relationship, and this will normally end in conflict.

3. Whenever you do anything – make a decision, have a conversation with someone etc., you “feel” like this person is with you or watching you. Sometimes your mind tells you that this person is your friend. 

4. When you have sex with someone else (hopefully your husband or wife), you can hardly keep yourself from visualizing the person you have a soul tie with.

5. You take on the negative traits of the person that your soul is tied to and carry their offenses whether or not you actually agree with them. Remember human beings are spirits, so their soul tie spirit will follow you all the time.

6. You defend your right to stay in a relationship with the person that your soul is tied to, even though it is negatively effecting or even destroying the important relationships in your life (husband, wife, kids, leaders, etc.)

7. You have simultaneous experiences and/or “moods” as the person your soul is tied to. This can even include sickness, accidents, addictions etc.

1 Corinthians 6:15 – Do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, “THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH.”Do not involve yourself in a sexual relationship before you get married, save yourself from heart ache. 

There is hope if you find yourself in an unhealthy soul tie. You can never fall so far that you can’t be restored. New life is available to you by simply repenting and asking Jesus to forgive you. Forgiveness restores the standard in our lives, and you can live in freedom and hope again.

 

Prayer to break soul ties

Father in the name of Jesus, I repent from all the sins I committed that brought evil soul ties to my life

Names:………………..I choose to forgive all those involved. I forgive them and I declare that from today they are loosed and separated for ever from my life. I bless them and pray that you bless them and guide them towards their ordained destinies in the Name of Jesus. According to John 8:36 your work says: “Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed! In Matthew 18:18b “Whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven”, in the Name of Jesus. I declare that I am free from bad soul ties and I leave my yesterday behind. I am ready to meet the right companion you ordained and chose for me before the foundation of the earth and before I was in my mother’s womb in the Name of Jesus, Amen!


NB: Confess these scriptures above all the time when the devil is bringing back silly memories in your mind!


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