And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone;
I will make him a helper comparable to him.”
Genesis 2:18

Important Dos and Don’ts


1. Online Dating


  • Take time to create a decent profile
  • Add 3 – 4 recent photos (strive to ensure photos do not include family members or friends)
  • Be honest in presentation of yourself
  • Verify your photo. This will be advantageous in receiving more interests
  • Strive to engage with someone who has a verified photo
  • Stay positive (you control your journey in finding love)
  • Be cautious of getting attached to someone you haven’t met
  • Make the most of it. Have fun!


  • Use photos that are misleading and older than at least 2 years
  • Send or upload risqué photos, as per terms and conditions, your membership will be cancelled
  • use your real name as a username, create an Alias, once comfortable with a person you may reveal your name
  • Pretend to be someone you are not
  • Reveal personal information i.e. where you live and personal email, until you are sure about the person you are interacting with

2. First Date


  • Meet in a public place, preferably during daylight
  • Tell a friend or a family member where you are going
  • Use your own transportation
  • Bring a fully charged phone
  • Bring money (do not rely on your date to pay)
  • Thank your date for spending time (remember your manners)


  • Meet at your dates home
  • Wear revealing clothing
  • Be late for the date
  • Over indulge with alcohol
  • Talk about your ex (you will seem either bitter, heartless, or still hung up – any one of these is a huge turnoff.)
  • Plan a complicated date. Start with the basics e.g. coffee date


Be Wise

Interact with members who have verified photo status .
Verify your photo. Receive a verification badge, free of charge!

Food for the Spirit

Be still and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations. I will be exalted throughout the earth.

Psalm 46:10 (NKJV)



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